A thread for JimmyBean

[Dom R]

Jimmy you really do have to consider whether to get your M annulled. Your W married you under a FALSE pretext. For whatever reason.

Clearly, his wife has problems. major, major problems.
Marriage is supposed to be "for better or worse". This is obviously "worse".
What you, cobra, and lillie seem to be saying is,


"Well, if the 'worse' part comes within [X] time of you getting married... never mind all those vows.. the first year or so of your marriage is just a trial period anyways. obviously, this isnt working out for you, so just bail out now. It's ok, you dont really have to stick to all that 'better or worse' stuff, until you get at least a few years of 'good' marriage for yourself."

That just makes me sick.

For Jimmie:
Go talk to a professional counsellor, for how to deal with your wife's personal issues.
Ideally, SHE should go. But if she wont... you need to.
Maybe you should go, whether she sees one or not.

Obviously, you're getting burned out. that's a bad thing.
Take the time to schedule things in your life for you, as well as things for her. If you balance out your life more, then, you may feel better about things for the longer term.

It's probably not good to treat your wife as a child, and make appointments for her, and try to force her to go. If she doesnt want to go, then it wont DO anything for her to go anyway.