You said to me... "I am not a cold person." And that's what I heard and got caught up in. Because... as we discuss this and you say that to me... you are busy with defining and being NOT a cold person, and I am busy defining and considering you as NOT a cold person. You are both busy being what you are NOT.
Now. As soon as I asked you... "okay... you are NOT a cold person.... {{{{{{STOP}}}}}}} Next question....
"Well.... then what ARE you?"
And you told me.
I believed you. Now you can be Who You Are, and I can be Who I Am... and we can move onto the next thing. Until one or both of us, starts again BEING something we are NOT.