I will suggest smelling extra good over looking a certain way. I would rather have my W wear a large cotton T-shirt and smell good than a see-through or supposedly sexy nite time garment.
Umm... that's you. you're a woman. men are different! Women are known to be more scent-oriented than men.
it still matters to us, but not nearly as much as for a woman. Just dressing in "a large cotton T shirt" is a major turn-OFF for most guys, I would think.
(unless it's a short one, and effectively becomes a peek-a-boo "short dress", i guess...)
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The SSM forum had a night wear thread and most of the guys said Victoria Secrets nities didn’t have effect on them. One guy said a cameo soft cotton top was his ultimate turn-on.
i dunon whats up with them.. those guys are just weirdos!
Just kidding
I think that SOME of them, could be very appealing. It depends on you, your guy, and the specific "nitie" in question. Not everything looks good on every woman.. and different guys, will think different ones look good, on the same woman.
It also depends on just how turned on your guy already is. Sometimes, "slutty" is just what the dr. ordered ... but otherwise, just dressing "cute", and being(behaving) feminine, and snuggly, is the #1 turn-on, I think.
Smelling good while snuggling, "kicks it up a notch" but it's more the physical, than the olfactory, for men i think.
Oh. and your hair is really important to 95% of men too.
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... but otherwise, just dressing "cute", and being(behaving) feminine, and snuggly, is the #1 turn-on, I think.
but it's more the physical, than the olfactory, for men i think.