I have not been posting because all has been relatively quiet with my sitch. My H still refuses to settle. He has not caused too much havoc lately.

This is all been so surprising because H wanted to settle no matter what. He had stated he did not care if he lost everything. He just wanted to move on and get me out of his life.

Me: 45
H: 43
Married: 19 years
Dated 05 years
Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"

Kids: 16 (s)
13 (d)
2 (d)

"If god is for us, who can be against us"