What ever happened with the appraisal? He said that it would be for everyone's benefit.... did you ever find out what that meant?
Have you dicussed with him that since he knows he is not following through with the discipline/accountability part of parenting that it is for everybodys best interest that you become the custodial parent and he can have liberal visitation. He may have to find a way support her financially.... but better that then setting her up to lose in so many ways eventually if things are left the way they are at present.
It would seem that he is in his own MLC of sorts these days. Please don't take this wrong but you've catered to his need long enough. It's time for Amy to do what is best for her and the kids! Prayerfully, he will see the light.... just as you did.
((((hugs))) out to ya and prayers sent up!
~lost
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
