you dont' know that for sure, stop forture telling and coming with such conclusions. In a healthy R, each partner should be in charge of their own happiness to begin with, if your mood depends on what the other person does/says, something is very wrong.
My H also has the worst hrs, but we were able to steal 1-2hrs here and there to see a movie, go out to eat.
Yea, I've posted, there are two pity parties there, LoL, so watch out. We are all allowed a little drama now and then, we just have to be careful not to be toxic to our Ss when it happens.
About ML, is there no presure because you are both in agreemtent to take time off or because you decided to give it a rest for the time being? How does he feel about holding hands, hugs? test the waters that way, then maybe go for cuddling and see if he is receptive.
A year or so ago, my SL got started because I initiated most of the time, had I not, we prob wouldnt' have had any for months (H still bewildered from broken A). So, in some cases it helps if the LBS initiates.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
