I know this may be premature but need advice

[cat03]

I don't see anything with occasional contact during the day. My M right now is in pieces, but I still chit chat with my H over txt messages, trying to build a connection (barely if any R talk, specially at work).

That's awesome that you will be going to Retrouville! wish I could do that, with my H's schedule is imposible; dont' read too much into little things (her not replying fast enough) Focus on the positives.