In so many words, the C made me understand that we need to talk about the grounds rules for this marriage. For so long I've kept saying "I can't take one more lie" and then he lies and then.. nothing. So the C suggested asking H some questions about our marriage and truth, not to drill him nor demand from him. To calmly lay out what I stand for. In this way, in the future, he will think very well if he wants to mess around again, because he will know the consecuences and will make his own decisions without me interfering (I was about to force H to either give me his phone or that I send a msg to op that I'd post her picts everywhere if she were to contact my H again).
I feel a new kind of peace because if op wants to find him he will, but he will be the one who has to stop her, not me.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
