Hi Bam- Lissie is right. It is all about the kids now. Try not to worry about what your STBX is doing...he is nuts. My first H left when my kids were babies and eventually went to live with the OW (made a couple of kids with her, then married her, then made a couple more kids) and during the serveral years they lived together, he took our kids to church on the Sundays they were with him. The hypocracy drove me nuts but you just have to get to the point where you can let it go and move on. You have to teach your children right and wrong and you have to do it while trying not to bash their father. They will get it and someday thank you for it.
At least these rumors didn't come out before the D was filed. That would have been a lot worse.
Don't let him get to you and pretty soon you won't care what he does in his personal life.
