Oh, and CeMar:

Consider this. Your sexuality is YOURS. It belongs to you. It is no one elses. Ever. The ACT of sharing sexuality CAN culminate in sex... which IS a shared responsibility. But I am responsible for my sexuality, and YOU are responsible for YOUR sexuality.

I can't share what I don't have. I can't BE responsible for YOURS AND MINE. If I am... with whom am I having sex?

Corri