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bambam1970
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09/11/07
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I could of written this.
And my heart hurts so bad to see another [censored], dumping his crap on the kids.
Bam, you and I have to do our last, bit of detaching.
You filed, you raise those kids wonderfully. Now, it is time to be truthful to ourselves.
I know how you feel, you just want one shred of decency from him. One thing telling you that you were not sleeping with the enemy for xx years.
But mamma, for the good of your sanity, and your kids.
Let him go completely.
You hear rumors about him, take a deep breath and keep going.
Tell your kids, the truth, what he is doing is wrong. He loves you, but his choices are wrong.
NO more covering up, for him. He made his bed............
NO more calling him. HE will do what he wants, before the D, after the D.
Your kids will look up to you. They will see that mom was the one there at night, in the morning, tucking them in.
They will see it
I am sorry for the hurt and the frusteration. I feel you mamma.
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