Here's a question for anyone out there reading this thread...
One of the strategies I've used to get to this point is disconnecting and not pressuring. For example - no phone calls and no emails except when necessary.
On the road to recovery, at what point do you think it is wise / beneficial to start back with the occasional contact during the day. Seems like this is a necessary exchange for a healthy relationship, but not sure at what point to start doing this again. I feel as though this was something that I did wrong before the bomb (little contact during the day) and want to fix that.
