I can understand about the cats. Sounds like they were on their way out before all this. Just thought I would throw that out there.

Anyway, keep posting and venting here. we are all good listeners and usually have a nickels worth of advice to help you out.

Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.