Jimmy you really do have to consider whether to get your M annulled. Your W married you under a FALSE pretext. For whatever reason.
There are people on this board that have been married many many years and have kids and are struggling to keep their M's intact - and more power to them. And people like Cobra and Lil and me and others here will pitch in and try to help them keep their M's together.
But you are NOT in that boat so please don't act like you are. You are young (I assume) and have your life ahead of you, please don't feel like you are being a bad person by saying "Whoops - I made a mistake". You have the chance at this point in your life to back away from this and it does not show lack of committment, you have that in spades. As Lil's tag line says "somewhere there is a chilli you can't eat".
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
