I have used DBing tactics since we got back together. I was sort of using them anyway. The whole thing made me do a 180 anyway to save my marriage. Doing Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with a clinical psychologist really helped aswell.

If the problem was with him but it's ok with you maybe his conscience is getting to him!!! My H did have a bit of trouble himself and he did put some of it down to guilt. It's good if they feel guilty that way AND he remebers that ML is great WITH YOU. I would be tempted if you want to ML to limit it. Don't let him forget how good it is but don't make it readily available!!!

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength