Even though you feel he is still determined to end it...I really think this is a great step. This is so much better for the kids, and he's showing understanding for your hurt he has caused. There is still lots of time to make this work, and you have no idea that there is still a D in your future. Dotie was totally right about all that.
I do think that you need to be careful on showing the vulnerability. Take it slow, because it can very easily point blame, or cause guilt to the WAS, and you really don't want that. You want to continue to show strength to him for the most part, but of course you don't need to pretend to be superwoman either. So find a good balance with that, an honest balance.
don't lose hope, you still have lots of hope to keep fighting.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
