CVA - "B,B&B"

[Heimlich]

CVA,

Dude, LOVE the thread title. Thanks for the laugh.

I think Puddle's on to something with the intimidation thing.

Quick thought on the Type A thing. As a definate type B personality (though I can ramp up to A behavior when I need to) married to borderline type A, I can say that you people occassionally just piss us type B's off. You know what, ain't nothing wroing with me and Puddle drinking lattes and tea (me) and enjoying some conversation rather than wasting a Saturday making sure the hedges are trimmed. Now what I mean? You say you know that your W moves at a slower speed -- glacial or geological pace. I know you were kidding -- kindof. But seriously, that's really pretty condenscending. Ever think she may just have a different opinion on what's important? Also, if you've always just jumped the gun and did everything, what's left for her to do? What CAN she be responsible for (other than finding, buying and torturing you by wearing boob shirts. Excuse me while I go to my happy place for a moment -- mmmmmmmmm, boob shirts.) Ok, back. Anyway, just a few thoughts there. I believe you mentioned in earlier threads the whole control thing over her. Chill out. Step back. Does the to-do list HAVE to be 30 items long?

Little tongue in cheek with some of this stuff because I think you realize everything I just jotted down, but . . .

PS: Its easier I think to let oneself go living in NE...you are covered up for 9 months out the year

WAW, I'm from the south, and I think CVA will back me up on this, you don't have as much fried food up north. By the time the sweet young things of Texas and Louisiana (and they are some gorgeous women when young) hit mid-30, diet kills 'em. Additional downside to this, it's hot down there and they don't cover up. [[[[shiver]]]] muffin tops. Blech. (Same goes for many of the men too.)

Keep up that PMA, my man. The Longhorns won, life is good for another week, right? And, a miracle, the Texans as well!

BD

[Not Much Left]

Thanks H
No PMA right now. W got back and basically said, "taking a shower and going to bed". F if you get me. No rub and I gotta go outta town tomorrow. As Nomo once ptd out, if da rub goes away, you aint gonna ne happy bro! Mmmmhhhh, no zen daddy right now. Gonna take an ambien and go bye bye. Not happy, it was like, thanks, now get out, ever so politely. I hate this sh#t.

Called on a house today. Time to follow thru, I don't need her permission to spend my money and stop living like a 1st year college student.

Does someone need a hug? Yep! Not u though H, preferrably female!

CVA gonna go dream of hot giril in the gym,I have a better shot at her right now, she doesn't know how nutty I am, yet!

C

[cliffy]

One of the worst parts of living in the north, is that the end of summer means end of boob shirts. No wonder why people get so depressed up here in the winter.

[cliffy]

CVA, have some pleasant dreams. Sorry for the not so great evening.

[Puddle]

Sorry, CVA, sounds like you were looking forward to some pleasant rubbing. If it's happening often enough for you to be disappointed when it doesn't, that still sounds awfully good. So did you say, "Gosh, you sound tired. Sleep well"?

Did you also used to get p***ed off when she didn't feel like having sex? (Seriously.)

Good for you re the house.

(((CVA)))) (No boob shirt.)

[chicki]

(((CVA))))
I know Im a little late on the hugs ,but here they go anyways...

I hope you were at least satisfied in your dreams..the imagination is a splendor thing...

I keep saying that to my H about the imagination thing and so one day last week he was looking for me to possibly have a vibrator??? Nope dont get into the fake thing, I guess I will have to experience though:( H kept on saying where is your toy? Dont you have one by now? UGH!

[waw1978]

(((CVA)))

You were asking for the female kind so there you go.

Good for you making the decision about kicking your dorm room to the curb. I hope you find something suitable and have a blast making it your own. The kiddies will be into helping you too. Esp if they will have their own spaces at your place. Nice little adventure.

I know D4 was psyched to get to pick out new stuff for her room at Momma's house. Made her feel a little better about the transition.

[savingus77]

(((CVA)))) (W/boob shirt.)

Sorry - know I am a little late on that also - you are probably on the other end of the rollercoaster already by now with high PMA.

[Not Much Left]

yeah, not exactly, to be expected though.

Yes boob shirt was there but not too low.

This morning asked if she wanted to meet for lunch before I go out of town and she said "I dont know, I havent thought that far in advance"? Wow, minute by minute life is weird to me. But that is the way it has always been.

We have not been anywhere "alone" since the separation so maybe that is still it, I dont know.

Not going to push it. Was definitely in a bad mood about last night and then really nothing this morning.

Puddle, yes on the sex thing, I would get ticked, however, it was really because I did all the initiating so never knew if she wanted to do something or not so when I got the "hand", no not that hand, it ticked me off even more.

Unfortunately my mind has gone to the ever present "did I settle for CVA?" F#@k. I hate that thoght, it makes me feel small, helpless (reference to Night at the Museum, line by Owen Wilson), I dont like it!

Off on the road again, wish me luck. Dont really feel like going anywhere or doing anything.

C

[MissingMyHoney]

cva, I got a boob shot this morning and I was happy to see the twins.