WoW all of this sounds alot like what I have been going through since last December. Hang in there I am definitely rooting for you!!! YOu can do it Limbo!
Me:33; Ring on 5/17/97 H:33; Ring off 5/31/07 Together:13years Married: 10 ("celebrated" 10th after he moved out Bomb Dropped: New Year's Eve '07 Moved out: 5/4/07 Filed: 3 weeks later S: 3 D&S(twins):1