Hi LL.

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anyway...I am at a loss...I don't know what to do...keep the current appointment or simply call and postpone it??
Well, you know the lawyer will be there today, tomorrow, and next week. Do you think it would have the most impact to say to your H, "I see that you are making some changes and really trying...somthing I've wanted for so long...so, I decided to postpone seeing the lawyer to see where we can go from here."

He is trying. Maybe acknowledging the fact that he's working on things might make him rest a little easier... It's all about validation, right?

My .02.

jethro