(((HUGS))), wow, that is my nightmare, the involvement of the OW. I am so sorry...I really am. and agree, take some time, don't rush, make sure all your ducks are in a row.

good luck, and stay strong.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher