In my sitch, we were/are still living together and there were other positives. HOWEVER, we also got to the point where things weren't changing and my H wasn't making a decision one way or another. So, I guess my point is that in some situations it can be a good thing but you must be open to cutting your H off if it doesn't seem to be bringing him closer to you.
Unfortunately, we're separated, and he's *officially* moving in w/the OW this weekend. When we were living together, our s*x life didn't change a bit until things got physical w/OW.
I just realized that withholding s*x can be a part of my 180. Since lots of ML w/me didn't prevent him from straying when we were together, maybe NOT ML will actually help bring him back. I'm not sure, though, considering the fact that he'll have a L/I OW down the street.
So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6
