Quoting lostlove: I am not an old woman...I do not live in 1950...I live now...and I want to share and be shared with.
I am so sorry about the frustration, and I know what you mean by that.
Quoting lostlove: I know h will never be as expressive as me...(hell most people aren't)
I am not sure whether your H would change into the way you want. Heck, you are not even sure if such a guy would exist or not, are you? If that is the case, is it a reasonable expectation?
So what else is bothering you that caused this agony?
Quoting lostlove:yes I should be celebrating the fact that he says he's committed to trying to make this work..
Even this could not be enough for you?
I know that I am not validating your feelings now, since I can imagine how frustrating it can be after going through WAH and now your H cannot express his heart-felt ideas, perhaps an apology or a reassurance to you. But to what extent are you promoting this connection you expected? Has he been belittled or unappreciated before he walked out? Have you figured out what you want and asked about it?
The bottom line: I see a lot of good signs from the interactions between you two. Your H did not have to try; your H did not have to go to C; your H did not have to take your sarcasm for his forgetfulness. He is there willing to take as much as a guy can take. If anything, please give him the credit and take the hugs he gives you each day. That is a start.
Sorry if I am offending... I guess I am just very passive-aggressive tonight... sigh. I'll stop posting on people's threads for now before bothering more people...
