I agree, no need to do it tomorrow. You know it may be what you want and you can focus on learning everything you need to know, and that will empower you for sure.
I am so sorry. That is my biggest fear, OW being involved with my kids (even MORE so) if we separate. But we know we can't change it, all we can do is protect them, be the strong one in the storm, and watch for serious signs of trouble.
HUGS HUGS HUGS and more HUGS!!! I am so sorry. Check in with us so we know you are ok.
