I think you should still go to attorney..but don't let them talk you into something..or try to make d seem glorius..I work with them all day..I sit in court and see a lot of them draining peoples retirements..seriously, they like to stir you up and make you mad then you get mad at your spouse etc....just remember that you and your h are still in the "honeymoon" stage of piecing..there are bound to be the days when you both will wonder why the other seems mad, sad...distant. I wonder if too many times when couples get back they try too hard to make sure everything is right..just be your new self and have fun doing it. Sue