Quote: What if you gave his intent the benefit of the doubt and told him you cancelled for now or got resheduled way out (a couple months) and then see what happens?
excelent idea...but since the appointment already got pushed back from friday to this tues...I wonder if it keeps getting put off will it not bother him anymore...or is the fact that I actually did call proof enough to him that it is something I WILL do and follow through with if he doesn't stay an active participant in the r...now active doesn't mean all peaches and cream every day..but simply letting me know w'sup and not leaving me to wonder what his distance is all about...that is afer all part of how we got to where we are...h's thinking everything will just go away on it's own...h stonewalling me when I try to talk because he simply doesn't have the "right" answer..h is seeming to realize that any answer is better than none.
