Quote: ...if we can keep going in this direction (less the threat of my filing) then all will be well and we will be a couple to envy...can h keep the momentum going...can I keep hearing his language?? time will tell...
LL,
some thoughts:
YOU are going in the 'right' direction now (was that a goal?) -- How will you know IF you can keep going in this direction without the threat (another goal?) UNLESS you remove the threat?
IF your ultimate goal remains the same AND you do go see a lawyer --WHAT will be your 'threat'/action next time? IMHO YOU got the desired response AND you are moving in the right direction right now -save the ammunition...
What if you gave his intent the benefit of the doubt and told him you cancelled for now or got resheduled way out (a couple months) and then see what happens?