Well, that was kind of you. I'm sure it's much more comfortable for all of them there. But I completely understand you wanting to do what's best for the children. You are a good dad. Try not to feel too bad about OM at your house. Keep in mind all the memories in that house include you. Furniture you and your wife bought, etc... It's never as idealic as we imagine.

I hope you are doing things to help enjoy some of the alone time, but staying busy and GALing too. Have you made friends in your apartment complex? Maybe look for community events to attend? Perhaps you should arrange a party there. Invite people from work and maybe even some neighbors????

By the way, what kind of custody arrangements have you come up with so far? How much time do you get to spend with the boys?

By the way, it's not stupidity of parents, it's parent.... sorry, just had to throw that in. I hate seeing you be so hard on yourself when you have been the one willing to work on things.

Now, go make some fun plans for the week and weekend!!!!!!!

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.