things still going well..h speaking his language and I'm hearing it...(long story about an icy driveway and 15 bags of kitty litter, stopped at 3 stores to find no sand) and h is also speaking my language...hugs each morning and a hug along with a peck that is a tad more than a peck when he leaves in the am...we'll see if this is simply to deter me from speaking to the lawyer...lawyer appointment tommorow...h's meeting with c on wednesday.. if we can keep going in this direction (less the threat of my filing) then all will be well and we will be a couple to envy...can h keep the momentum going...can I keep hearing his language?? time will tell...