Disappointed, Not that I can consider myself a success story yet, but things are looking up for my R. I know there's a long road ahead of us, but I think a lot of the things I learned from DBing really helped. Give the space. Have patience (lots of it). Keep the PMA.
One thing that seemed to make a difference in my case were times when I put my foot down with regards to the whole situation. I'm not sure this is in the DBing books, but there were a couple of times when I got fed up with things and pushed the envelope. I think this may have helped snap the W back to reality and really think about what she was doing.
Everyone's situation is different, but I'm amazed at how many similar stories I read on here. There's lot's of good advice here already for you. Keep doing what your doing, but also don't be afraid to do the 180s to stir things up once in a while.
