Sounds like what you are doing is having the intended effect. I agree with all of the others. NO Intimacy - including kissing / hugging. You are divorced so there is no reason for that. Good thing is that he is thinking / talking about your future R. Keep doing what you've been doing and expect backslides. In my current situation, it seems like it happens daily. One day things are great and the future looks rosey, the next day she's back to doubting our R. I have faith that this will all work out, but I can see now there is still a lot of work ahead of us. Concentrate on keeping yourself healthy (both mind and body) for that baby.
