always.... were we married to the same man.... or maybe I had the brother :/.... your description fits to a tee.
Amy,
Girl my heart goes out to you in a mighty way. Being "bad cop" is the crapiest of roles to have to be strapped to. I have been there for a long time and I truly feel your pain. There is however a silver lining, it's still about 10-12 years in the coming. Sucks having to live through it.... but knowing that the day will come that we are thanked for holding them accountable and responsible, adds some measure of comfort.
So grab your boots and prepare to wade through the BS... I'm sure there's a lot. Speaking of BS.... your H(oops... just kiddin) is either gonna cowboy up and face his own issues or he is not. That can not be your problem. Girl, your plate is quite full as it is. You can leave the door unlocked for reconciliation to happen at some point but I know that in your mind and in your heart you realize that can not truly take place until he comes to terms with his own demons. Amy.... placing the welfare of your children as top priority is something we can all agree on. The kids may balk .... but just keep in touch here. We support you 100%.
Hang in there toots... God's got your back!!!!
~lost
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
just kiddin) is either gonna cowboy up and face his own issues or he is not. That can not be your problem. Girl, your plate is quite full as it is. You can leave the door unlocked for reconciliation to happen at some point but I know that in your mind and in your heart you realize that can not truly take place until he comes to terms with his own demons. Amy.... placing the welfare of your children as top priority is something we can all agree on. The kids may balk .... but just keep in touch here. We support you 100%.
