Thanks Atlas. Yeah I'll let my W sort it out. No point in telling her cuz it just makes her think I'm trying to guilt trip her into something. I figure if every time I have a fun visit w/ the kids, it'll just make them miss me more. Nothing I can do about the W. I have to focus on the kids and make sure they are ok. So far my S4 is just saying things. He has not been exhibiting any bad behaviors yet that's resulted from the S. So for W she thinks he's ok and will adjust. Whatever....


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93