Quoting lostlove:LL can get a piece whenever she wants
LL, seriously, and not to invalidate your feelings, does that sound like anger and frustration to you? If so, does it make it harder when your H started trying?
As I was catching up some of the earlier posts, I think jethro made a good point that "absence" (in any form) makes the heart grow fonder. Your absence in working on M did have an impact on your H. As you also pointed out clearly, that is no solution, as any libido on your H's body is doomed to die as he seems to be a low-libido person; it takes mutual commitment and connection to ensure your mutual satisfaction in the R.
I don't have an answer, besides deep sympathy with your H as I heard the similar complaints from my W as you did. The only thing I realized now is that it is not necessarily just because of the physical characteristics so your H had "low libido problem". It has much more phychological side of it. There is not going to be a quick fix, but it takes the effort of you two to address the root problems and reestablish connections.
I feel for you, LL.
Chuck
P.S., I am proposing a party at my place in one of the coming weekends. Check it out in the Fun forum...
