Quoting jethro: Previously, it seemed you've talked about what a libido you seem to have and wish that he'd just make a move...that you feel rejected when you put forth the effort and he didn't want to.
Well, now he's putting forth the effort to have sex. Why this change of heart? Is it possible that now that you've achieved your goal of him pursuing you a bit more, that you've now moved onto the next goal of being able to find intimacy with him through other means? I think maybe you shouldn't overlook the fact that it really does seem to be that he's trying...
LL, I was just wondering the same thing, but Jethro put it into words so well. (Thanks Jethro!)
And, what do you think H could do that would put you in that mood now?
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
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