My H had told me immediately after ML that the sexual side of things with OW wasn't nearly as good as with me. Hah!!!( infact it was absolutely awful).
Yes, that's what my H said, too! One night he confessed that their s*x life wasn't very good with her. He keeps going on and on about how much he misses ML w/me, how great our s*x life was, etc. I don't know if *that* part of their relationship has improved, and I'm sure not going to ask.
Funny how quickly things turned around for you after you ML and the OW found out. 18 months is a long time for an A -- how far into the separation did this turnaround happen? Are you back together w/your H now?
OW seems very possessive (ironic, eh?), and she told him the she will NOT SHARE. Hey, guess what, sweetie -- you're sharing him and you have no clue! LOL!
I've decided NOT to ML w/H though, at least not for now. I'm going to keep things platonic and see if he has a change of heart.
I've been very discouraged lately, but your post really brightened my day! Thank you again, Saffie.
So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” - Matthew 19:6