So today we have first contact, by text msg, and my answer - see above.

Finally at 3:00 I get the answer: "Im ok I hope ur too i have sparky bring him back Thurs am thxs."

So my baby step seems positive and I am pathetically satisfied. I may or may not answer with something like "I'm good - give Sparky kiss goodnight for me". Still thinking about it. Is it going with what works, or too much contact?

H also put out the trash for tomorrow but doesn't seem to have touched much in the house. He did put out disk for the computer for me that I couldn't find the other day -I guess he found it while going thru some papers. There probably was something in the papers he didn't want me to see, because he stopped me from looking there last week.

So far he has still only taken the minimum amt of stuff with him, and does not seem to be taking much away with him when he comes here.

Anyway, I guess I have to rely on SIL to get me to colonoscopy early Wed morning, which means she has to come and stay the night tomorrow. I could have asked H and I'm sure he would do it, but that's not really a picture I want him to have in his head.


In4ride
Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs
1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03
Separated mostly in house
Come back together/H breaks back 9/04
Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires
2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later