LL, My h & I were married for 21 years before I left. He was the first guy I had dated in over a year after I had been raped. He was great very much into sex. After I left him I thought we were done. Well the week after we first saw each other was amazing as far as sex was concerned. I don't know what happened maybe because I'm 40 and suppose to be at my peak (wahtever) but I have read a few books and I just enjoy it more. How to satisfy a man every time and have him beg for more by Naura Hayden may sound yucky to some. But it is an excellent book. Made me laugh it is a very good read. It's bascially for married couples and affairs are mentioned. I want to get the how to satisfy a woman book. Sex should never be used as a punishment, I say that now because I was a idiot before. If he wants to be sexual especially after having two good days, man go for it. I think sometimes the sweet moments you want will come when you least expect it. I know my husband was rather surprised (to put it mildly by my changes) he doesn't think they will last. I just have a whole new attitiude about sex and marriage. John Gray's Venus & Mars in the bedroom is very good too. The things you want will come LL they will.
KIP
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