I should also add a bit about monday nights conversation... h did mention my ring.. he hates that I don't wear my ring...he will not take his off because it does mean something to him...he understands why I wont wear mine..it does not make him happy that I go out without a ring..he does not like to look at my hand and not see it there...it is something that he thinks about...(again pointing out to me that he is not oblivious) he hasn't asked me to put it back on because he hasn't found the right time or the right way.
so I do feel better about that...I have said (here anyway and possibly to him) that I would be happy if he even said it angrily.."why don't you put your ring back on" but I wouldn't be happy with that now would I...I do want him to propose...in some fashion..with a new ring (yes I've hinted that a nice little ruby would be nice) or with the original one.
well the lawyer called and he has been called into court for friday..so has rescheduled our appointment for tuesday...and said to call if I have any problems before then (sheesh what do people do?? ahhh...I know the threat of d makes people do weird things..move money around...hide stuff..etc...that is not my h...but then again I would never ever ever say it would be like my h to keep a secret friend...or to leave his wife and kids...) hey I don't care...he can keep putting off the appointment...
