Thanks CVA...I still would be nervous to pull the trigger on moving out. Im not sure its a 180 in my favor. We are in counseling and she is going to see someone on her own. Not sure how committed she is to coming up with solutions, but I dont think it can hurt to be there. My wife is outspoken and a quick decision maker. One thing thats making me nervous is she's reconnecting with all her friends as fast as possible. The more she talks about her feelings and reasons for this, the more they become hardened and ingrained. I have stopped pursuing and am keeping to myself more. I promised her I would back off and give her space if shed let the counseling play out.
