I agree with Whapu, after the latest bomb was uncovered my H would tell me how I drove him nuts with my neurotic misgivings (some where while he was in the latest A, but which were truly unfounded) and how , when I did it pre-A it'd just relive the old A memories, each time I talked about them.

IMHO, leaves the door open for it to happen again.
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You said it hon, in your own opinion. Need I say more?
Now, I'm also hurt by the fact that when the 2nd A was uncovered H could only mustered a sad short "sorry" at the C and never said anything else. But as you posted on the girl's thread, that's the person he is, he is showing remorse by other ways.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.