Jarhead, I am going to back up what the others have said. This is not your responsibility to file! Calmly and nicely explain to W that this is not what you want and cannot bring yourself to do it. You still think this is a mistake and feel that you can work things out. Something along those lines. If W wants out, she has to take the bull by the balls. Sorry you are here, dude, but there can be some good advice from the folks around here. Given the handle, I assume you are retired/active marine? If so, thanks for your service!