why don't I listen to my own stories?

[Dom R]

side comment on "my sitch" again... I have this bad feeling that my wife is reading my posts again.

I'm fairly sure she found me posting on a different site, and that lead to all kinds of problems. that's part of the reason I moved over here. (the other reason being, that I think the DB approach might work better for us)

I really like helping people however I can, and also sharing how I feel about my own stuff.
buuuut... i'm feeling like, even though I'm being honest and open about my positive intentions, and non-pressure-y approach to things... she'll still react negatively if she reads it. Not becuase I think i've written anything "bad", but maybe because she'll still feel pressured or something.
Half of me wonders if she's getting cold feet right now because maybe she's been reading me here. sigh.

so, maybe I'll just shut up about me for a while, and stay away from commenting to people who are similar situations to my own.
sigh.

Sweetheart.. if you really are reading this...
Lets just keep doing the positive things together like we've been doing these last few weeks, and see how we feel? If we dont overanalyze things, and Just Do It... then our children enjoy it, I enjoy it, and you seem to enjoy it too.
Let's keep having fun together?
I hope you'll come play wednesday. The children and I would really enjoy it.