Marvin I'm with Dom on this view as well I'd like to add that I doubt it if your wife is the one who is solely responsible in creating the situation. She may not have wanted to do anything about it in the past but that is the past.
If you don't address the issues that you contributed to the state of your marriage the likelihood that you will recreate it in a new relationship is fairly high in my opinion. What you do is ultimately your choice, good luck.
