Good point, I have said nearly exactly what you suggested. We have always been good to each other (one on one) relations. That is not the issue. I have already been to a counselor Indvidual, I would go again but she got upset and asked why I needed counseling again. I indicated I thought it would help for me to understand a get someone's elses suggestions. She basically said your not crazy why go.
I dropped it at the point it wasn't helping. I agree if you read some of my previous posts you will find I take full responsibility for where I am at today. I was just journaling. Probably should have noted that.
The only victim in any sitch is the Kids they have no say and no power! Period! I don't by anything else other than a lot times we forget how to act like compassionate adults to one another.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
