Oh yeah, I know you, CVA! (Are you my father?) You're the guy jogging by the window while on your cell phone while mowing the lawn while planning the weekend while making a mental list of the 8,000 things you're going to accomplish by the end of the day while I'm in the cafe sipping a latte not thinking about much. This used to make me feel like a complete slug, but as I began to appreciate my zen pace more (instead of beating myself up for it) I began to appreciate your yin to my yang. Maybe you can, too.
Originally Posted By: CVA
my expectations are just way too high of other people, let alone myself. What a copout line, eh? What a load, working on that one too.
Great! I think appreciating what W does and who she is will go a long way there.
Originally Posted By: CVA
"was it alright w/ me or is there just too much going on, I wanted to call you before I responded". I just said "uh, yeah, already planned (to watch you walk out the door looking hot...did not say that one ;)) to watch the kids so sure..."
How about, "Hey, I appreciate you checking with me. Sure, it's fine, have a great time"?
Originally Posted By: CVA
I suspect we would not be where we are if both of us had made these efforts.
