ha ha ha - you MUST be kidding!

[Lissie]

(sigh) we feel the same sugar.

[*KS*Chick*]

I'm just so amazed.

The nerve.

The cajones.

For real.

And then he can't even make her brush her teeth?

[*KS*Chick*]

Child support.......

Sure, he owes me $2250 from this summer. I know I won't see a dime of that. For that, I hope his guilt or any morals he possesses fester and eat at him.

And now....he said he mailed a check on the 17th of August. I called his lawyer on the 29th of August to say WHAT IS UP!?! Nothing? He called the state, got it "set up" ....and I should be hearing from them soon.

Well today is ummmm 10 September....so I called the KS Payment center. The lady was a bitchhhh but ok....I'm sure she has a stressful job, dealing with complaining mothers/fathers who're not seeing a dime. OK.

So....basically she refers me to the district court for our county because she doesn't have the case information. However, this little nugget of info was priceless to me....

If they received a check @ the payment center, it would prompt them to call our court to get the case info.

So folks....what's that say to you?

That he lied AGAIN?

I think not!? I'm feigning disbelief. No way. This upstanding young man?

NAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[AmyC]

In Virginia, you could file a Show Cause for nonsupport.
That would get him back in front of the judge.
And if he still doesn't comply with the Order, his ass could spend a weekend in jail to see if that changes his mind.

Follow whatever recourse your state has.

[*KS*Chick*]

it's all such a run around.......but the bottom line is that it appears he has lied again.

When will I stop being surprised?

[*KS*Chick*]

and just to be completely up front and honest - I'm tired of the lies so I've sent him a text telling him the check wasn't received, and that he's been lying to me for a long time, so I'm having a hard time believing him. I mentioned that he took the COW to the restaurant he'd "NEVER" take a woman to, because it was our place, and asked him to please, just sign over rights to our daughter.

And I hate him.

And I would just like to add/ask WHY the only dreams I've had lately have had his sorry @$$ in them

[FaithLOVEHope]

Are you sure you are not living my life? The OW, the lies, the no payment, the o.k. for some slut to tuck your child in at night and and dont forget the DREAMS...they are driving me insane....
I don't know what to say to make you feel better, BUT i can say it sucks and I feel your pain...

Hang in there girl, we don't deserve this so there HAS to be a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow...there just has to be!!!!!!

[*KS*Chick*]

I think it's kind of bad of me, but I'm actually semi-happy. I know him. He can't keep a relationship the way he is and he's made no effort to change.

He will one day regret his decision and it will be way too late.

[FaithLOVEHope]

I am right there with ya..one day they will, we may never know it but they will.

My H is 29 and he is dating a 21 year old ..so all they do is party and drink....so that will get old and that is all their relationship is based on.....soooooo

I am glad you are getting happier, it is a long road but atleast you have started the journey!!!

[*KS*Chick*]

9:54 AM - Nobody’s Fool....
Current mood: happy
Category: Blogging


Thanks to Avril, I have a new theme song.....I just wish I could add it to my page but it's "too old"...whatever

That, however, doesn't mean that I can't share the lyrics with you.... (are you tired of lyrics yet? I mean really? Let me know. I might not stop LOL but I'll know! HA!!! )

Nobody's Fool

Step up step up (step up)
Step up step up (step up)
Step up step up
Step up

Fall back, take a look at me
And you'll see
I'm for real
I feel what only I can feel
And if that don't appeal to you
Let me know
And I'll go
Cuz I flow
Better when my colors show
And that's the way it has to be
Honestly
Cuz creativity
Could never bloom
In my room
I'd throw it all away before I lie
So don't call me with a compromise
Hang up the phone I've got a backbone stronger than yours

(step up) la la la la la la la (step up)
La la la la la la la la la la la la la la la
Yeah yeah yeah yeah

If you're tryin' to turn me into someone else
It's easy to see I'm not down with that
(not nobody's fool) not nobody's fool
If you're tryin' to turn me into something else
I've seen it enough and I'm over that
(not nobody's fool) not nobody's fool
If you wanna bring me down
Go ahead and try
Go ahead and try

Don't know
You think you know me like yourself
But I fear
That you're only telling me what I wanna hear
But do you give a damn?
Understand
That I can't
Not be what I am
I'm not the milk and cheerios in your spoon
It's not that simple here we go not so soon
I might have fallen for that when I was fourteen
And a little more green
But it's amazing what a couple of years can mean

(step up) la la la la la la la (step up)
La la la la la la la la (step up) la la la la la la la
Yeah yeah yeah

If you're tryin' to turn me into someone else
It's easy to see I'm not down with that
(not nobody's fool)not nobody's fool
If you're tryin' to turn me into something else
I've seen it enough and I'm over that
(not nobody's fool)not nobody's fool
(if you)if you wanna bring me down
Then go ahead and try
Go ahead and try

Oh, oh, oh, oh
Go
Go ahead and try
Try to look me in the eye
But you'll never see inside
Until you realize, (realize)

Things are tryin' to settle down
Just try to figure out
Exactly what I'm about
If it's with or without you
I don't need ya doubting me

If you're tryin' to turn me into someone else
It's easy to see I'm not down with that
(not nobody's fool) not nobody's fool
If you're tryin' to turn me into something else
I've seen it enough and I'm over that
(not nobody's fool) not nobody's fool
If you wanna bring me down
Then go ahead and try!

(go ahead and try) la la la la la la (go ahead and try) la la la la la la
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
Go ahead and try
You'll be laughing out loud
When I'm playin' to my own crowd
Try~~~~


and there it is