Nobody likes to be stepped on and it seems you feel like your being trampled on. Tell her exactley how you feel, about the going out thing. Tell her you deserve downtime as well. What is good for the the goose is good for the gander. Just make sure before you "go off". You have thought this through, sounds like she wants you, but now you don't know if you want her. Understandable, I see more and more of this on this board.
The question becomes, why do it then, if our WAS doesn't want us why try, only to find out we don't want them! My point is aren't you doing this for your all. Your kid (s) and you.
Set some boundries and if she violates them and you want out tell her. Try not to get too mad though, it hurts I know, she can act the right way. I don't know if she will, but she can. This is a perfect example of why the divorce rate is so high.
Some believe it is easier to start over than fix what is broken.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
