[/quote]ow, the nuerotic part of me says.....take it easy. He can flip back at any moment. OW is still lurking and stalking. All is not fixed yet. [quote]
You are right, he can flip at any moment. That is why you can not let him have his cake and eat it too. NO sex for one, things take things slow. And don't do everything with him , stay detached. You did well before the weekend, KEEP DOING IT! By going semi dark you are helping you stay detached and not going thru his drama. HE will try to engage you like he did on Wednesday, You handled that very well. HE will have to work this out on his own.
GOOD JOB.
JAK
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