i sent an email this morning. i did talk to a lawyer, we really do not have any money. but already found out how to go about doing it at the courthouse on my own. found out all my rights etc.
with H and I other then the kids there are no assets. We filed bankruptcy a year ago, that H pushed for, now I see why. Both cars are paid off, no debts whatsover. We rent, so no house to seperate. H has a very small amount in his 401k that would not even be worth splitting since we borrowed from it so much, lets just say it is not even enough to really be worth withdrawing.
So we could just file an uncontested divorce and be done. I already know all this, H hasn't even looked into it, from what I know. But I think I am done living in limbo land, and I need him to be faced with the reality of it all.
