Quote: I've walked down the road of comparing my relationship with my husband to his relationship with his girlfriend (who didn't stop calling him even AFTER we got married! ) before we got married...did no good, just made me blind to the good things in our relationship. Could you be doing that too?
I'm assuming he is drawing the comparison and therefore I draw it. I try my best to not think of ow...she is nobody anyway...I know I am better than her...and honestly she would end up giving h more crap about not being happy than I ever could...she after all had this r while married...complained to me about foolish things regarding her h..and decided to leave him for a man not very different from her h.
it is not about the other person...it is about the fact that he doesn't have the desire to do or say or be with me...but with her (only used her as an example because it shows he's capable) he did...sheesh 3x a week off to her house to have lunch (or whatever I don't know details) calling everyday..wanting to be with her and near her etc...
it's in him is all I'm saying...he's more than a bread winner... I know it...he knows it...he just doesn't have a desire right now to be much more than that for me. and it sucks!!!
